I’m in love with this guy, but every time I ask him out, he just laughs it off and then complains that no one likes him. FML & FHL
I’m in love with this guy, but every time I ask him out, he just laughs it off and then complains that no one likes him. FML & FHL
Anonymous 3:21 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
maybe you are just too subtle
Spray 6:28 am on July 29, 2010 Permalink |
Or too ugly.
Anonymous 4:53 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
A thousand times this ^^^
what do ppl like this want? 4:54 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
i know girls who are just like this – complain that no one likes her… and then complain about creeps who ask them out
girl 9:34 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
let me explain. these statements made by girls are implicitly qualified. so “no one likes me”=”no one i want to like me likes me.”
“creeps who ask me out”=”people i would rather not have like me b/c they make me question my attractiveness/personality/etc.,” OR, “that guy who sits behind me in math and mouth breathes all the time”, OR, “i’m calling these people creeps b/c i feel sad/frustrated that i can’t attract the guy i want to attract, and I’ve encountered these same types of boys so often I’m about to fall down a slippery slope of self-doubt.” the end.
tiktak 9:44 am on July 29, 2010 Permalink
well-phrased, and agreed.
not rocket science 10:05 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
clearly they want a mutual attraction, why is that so hard to understand?
IMExperience 9:53 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
Having been on both sides of this one, it means he’s not interested but doesn’t want to make a big deal about it. Accept it, refuse to be used as an emotional crutch and stop hanging out with him so much.
OP 11:08 pm on July 28, 2010 Permalink |
I can’t we are like really good friends. and i can and have gotten way better looking guys
IMExperience 7:57 am on July 29, 2010 Permalink
You can be really good friends and still just roll your eyes and mock him when he starts sniveling. Just consistently make the point that this line of conversation is ridiculous and he’ll stop bitching to you about it. If you don’t, he’ll continue to see you as his “nice friend” and nothing more.
Old Money 10:40 am on July 29, 2010 Permalink |
Are you poor? Because the poor don’t count as real people, which would explain why he says that no one likes him.
Anonymous 3:25 pm on July 29, 2010 Permalink |
lol.
anyways, he is probably trying to turn you down nicely. take the hint and don’t lose your friendship.